HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO US!!! IT HAS BEEN 11 YEARS TODAY. WHAT ARE THE PLANS FOR THE DAY? WELL, HE IS OUT FISHING ON ONE OF THE FINGER LAKES WITH A BUDDY...AND I WILL TAKE THE KIDS OUT SHOPPING FOR FATHERS DAY GOODIES. I KNOW THAT SOUNDS PRETTY BORING...BUT WE CELEBRATED YESTERDAY..HA HA. USUALLY WE JUST GO OUT FOR SUPPER TOGETHER AND CALL THAT OUR DATE...BUT HE SURPRISED ME YESTERDAY WITH MUCH MORE. I CAME IN FOR LUNCH YESTERDAY WITH THE KIDS, AND I GUESS I WAS JUST FEELING A LITTLE DOWN AND OUT...ANYWAYS...HE TOLD ME I COULD SIT IN A PARTICULAR CHAIR...I HAD NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HALF BROKEN ...SO I SAT DOWN AND IT TOOK OFF WITH ITS CASTERS AND I JUST ABOUT FELL OVER...SO HE TRIED TO HELP ME BY GRABBING A HOLD OF ME SO I WOULDNT FALL...BUT IN THE PROCESS HE STEPPED ON MY TOES WITH HIS SIZE 13S AND CRUSHED MY FEET...SO I JUST KIND OF CURLED UP INTO A BALL AND SAID AHHHH JUST GET AWAY FROM ME....HE PULLED OUT THE LUNCH THAT HE BOUGHT FOR US, AND I WASNT CRAZY ABOUT THE DRINK THAT HE CHOSE FOR ME...AND HE SAID I GUESS I JUST CANT DO ANYTHING RIGHT...I SAID I GUESS NOT...HA HA. HE SAID WHAT ARE WE HAVING FOR DINNER TONIGHT? THIS IMMEDIATELY STRESSED ME OUT, BECAUSE I HADN'T FIGURED IT OUT YET...SO I SAID I DONT KNOW...WHATEVER. HE SAID HOW ABOUT YOU AND I GO OUT FOR SUPPER TOGETHER...AND YOU WEAR THIS....HE PULLED OUT A JEWELRY BAG CONSISTING OF A BEAUTIFUL RUBY AND DIAMOND NECKLACE WITH MATCHING EARRINGS....GORGEOUS!!!!!!! HE APPARENTLY HAD IT ALL PLANNED OUT. NOW LET ME JUST SAY THAT THIS REALLY TOOK ME OFF GUARD BECAUSE WE DONT GET GIFTS FOR EACH OTHER EXCEPT ON BIRTHDAYS...AND WELL TO GET JEWELRY...THAT WAS ALL BEFORE KIDS...SO I PUT THEM ON THAT NIGHT AND REALLY FELT LIKE I WAS YOUNG AGAIN...IN NEWLY MARRIED TERMS I GUESS, NOT REALLY AGE-WISE...OH WELL. WE HAD A FABULOUS TIME TOGETHER, AND SINCE THE JEWELRY IS RUBIES, I GET TO PASS THEM ON TO ESTHER AND GAYLE AS HEIRLOOMS. I HAVE A EMERALD RING FOR ISAAC TO GIVE TO HIM SOMEDAY TOO. 2 MORE TO GO I GUESS. HA HA. THERE IS ACTUALLY A FUNNY STORY THAT GOES WITH THIS...ON OUR WAY OUT TO EAT, I ASKED HIM HOW HE PLANNED IT ALL. HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS AT THE JEWELRY STORE WHEN I WAS COMING HOME FROM MY OB APPT. I SAID I CALLED HIM AND THERE WAS NO ANSWER...SO I LEFT HIM A MESSAGE THAT SAID ..."HEY DUM DUM...WHERE ARE YOU?" HE TOLD ME THAT HE REALLY WANTED TO PUT IT ON SPEAKER FOR THE WHOLE PLACE TO HEAR...AND SAY...I AM OUT BUYING THIS PERSON A GIFT...AREN'T I LUCKY? OH WELL...HE LOVES ME ANYWAYS I GUESS!!! HAPPY ANNIVERSARY DUM DUM...OOPS...I MEAN CORY. HA HA. I LOVE YOU.Saturday, June 20, 2009
CELEBRATIONS!!!!!
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO US!!! IT HAS BEEN 11 YEARS TODAY. WHAT ARE THE PLANS FOR THE DAY? WELL, HE IS OUT FISHING ON ONE OF THE FINGER LAKES WITH A BUDDY...AND I WILL TAKE THE KIDS OUT SHOPPING FOR FATHERS DAY GOODIES. I KNOW THAT SOUNDS PRETTY BORING...BUT WE CELEBRATED YESTERDAY..HA HA. USUALLY WE JUST GO OUT FOR SUPPER TOGETHER AND CALL THAT OUR DATE...BUT HE SURPRISED ME YESTERDAY WITH MUCH MORE. I CAME IN FOR LUNCH YESTERDAY WITH THE KIDS, AND I GUESS I WAS JUST FEELING A LITTLE DOWN AND OUT...ANYWAYS...HE TOLD ME I COULD SIT IN A PARTICULAR CHAIR...I HAD NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HALF BROKEN ...SO I SAT DOWN AND IT TOOK OFF WITH ITS CASTERS AND I JUST ABOUT FELL OVER...SO HE TRIED TO HELP ME BY GRABBING A HOLD OF ME SO I WOULDNT FALL...BUT IN THE PROCESS HE STEPPED ON MY TOES WITH HIS SIZE 13S AND CRUSHED MY FEET...SO I JUST KIND OF CURLED UP INTO A BALL AND SAID AHHHH JUST GET AWAY FROM ME....HE PULLED OUT THE LUNCH THAT HE BOUGHT FOR US, AND I WASNT CRAZY ABOUT THE DRINK THAT HE CHOSE FOR ME...AND HE SAID I GUESS I JUST CANT DO ANYTHING RIGHT...I SAID I GUESS NOT...HA HA. HE SAID WHAT ARE WE HAVING FOR DINNER TONIGHT? THIS IMMEDIATELY STRESSED ME OUT, BECAUSE I HADN'T FIGURED IT OUT YET...SO I SAID I DONT KNOW...WHATEVER. HE SAID HOW ABOUT YOU AND I GO OUT FOR SUPPER TOGETHER...AND YOU WEAR THIS....HE PULLED OUT A JEWELRY BAG CONSISTING OF A BEAUTIFUL RUBY AND DIAMOND NECKLACE WITH MATCHING EARRINGS....GORGEOUS!!!!!!! HE APPARENTLY HAD IT ALL PLANNED OUT. NOW LET ME JUST SAY THAT THIS REALLY TOOK ME OFF GUARD BECAUSE WE DONT GET GIFTS FOR EACH OTHER EXCEPT ON BIRTHDAYS...AND WELL TO GET JEWELRY...THAT WAS ALL BEFORE KIDS...SO I PUT THEM ON THAT NIGHT AND REALLY FELT LIKE I WAS YOUNG AGAIN...IN NEWLY MARRIED TERMS I GUESS, NOT REALLY AGE-WISE...OH WELL. WE HAD A FABULOUS TIME TOGETHER, AND SINCE THE JEWELRY IS RUBIES, I GET TO PASS THEM ON TO ESTHER AND GAYLE AS HEIRLOOMS. I HAVE A EMERALD RING FOR ISAAC TO GIVE TO HIM SOMEDAY TOO. 2 MORE TO GO I GUESS. HA HA. THERE IS ACTUALLY A FUNNY STORY THAT GOES WITH THIS...ON OUR WAY OUT TO EAT, I ASKED HIM HOW HE PLANNED IT ALL. HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS AT THE JEWELRY STORE WHEN I WAS COMING HOME FROM MY OB APPT. I SAID I CALLED HIM AND THERE WAS NO ANSWER...SO I LEFT HIM A MESSAGE THAT SAID ..."HEY DUM DUM...WHERE ARE YOU?" HE TOLD ME THAT HE REALLY WANTED TO PUT IT ON SPEAKER FOR THE WHOLE PLACE TO HEAR...AND SAY...I AM OUT BUYING THIS PERSON A GIFT...AREN'T I LUCKY? OH WELL...HE LOVES ME ANYWAYS I GUESS!!! HAPPY ANNIVERSARY DUM DUM...OOPS...I MEAN CORY. HA HA. I LOVE YOU.Friday, June 19, 2009
Hello Again

Friday, February 29, 2008
In Case You Are Interested.....
Thursday, February 28, 2008
Pre-Retirement Party
Amusing....but also a little painful --HA!
Lord, Thou knowest that I am growing older. Keep me from growing talkative and possessed with the idea that I must express myself on every subject. Release me from the craving to straighten our everyones affairs. Keep me from the recital of endless details. Give me wings to get to the point. Seal my lips when I am inclined to tell of my aches and pains. They are increasing with the years and my love to speak of them grows sweeter as time goes by. Make me thoughtful but not nosey; helpful but not bossy. Teach me the glorious lesson that occasionally I may be wrong. With the vast store of wisdom and experience, it does seem a pity not to use it all. But Thou knowest, Lord, that I want a few friends in the end.
Monday, February 18, 2008
OH NO!
Friday, February 15, 2008
JUST A THOUGHT....
A while back I was checking out some peoples blogs and I found something interesting. A lot of people were talking about creating routines, developing handy household skills, and general homemaking...it just must be in the air. I love this kind of information and in fact crave it. JJ you have addicted me to the "correct way to crack an egg"...after smashing it to pieces the first time, I have consistently gotten better, and can do it no other way! Also , the handy way to fold sheets....another JJ fun fact...thanks.
Isaac had to make a chore chart and follow it for one month for one of his scout requirements. So we made up a good chart and are all reaping the good benefits of that! Even little Gayle drys the dishes! On this chart the kids work for 6 days and on the 7th they just make their bed and they get a prize for all of their time and effort. Now when I say prize, I mean like a pack of gum, or a trip to the dollar store or something like that. I will admit it. Cory and I hardly ever buy the kids anything. I would say that we spend our money on letting them take swim lessons, being in t- ball, soccer...things that will keep them active and social. We buy them toys at Christmas and Birthdays. In doing this Cory and I have found that our children are more thankful for the things that they recieve. For instance...a trip to the dollar store may not seem like much...but for those that dont "get " something every time they go shopping it is a delight! Cory and I decided also long ago that we would not buy them something every time we went to the store...one because we did not have the money, and two because we did not want them to think that they were going to get something. Prizes are small and cheap at our house...but no less exciting for them. stickers were the reward for potty training...not candy. I feel bad for some parents who have set the standard so high. Isaac asked me the other day if he could have a prize for doing so well at swim lessons...I said your prize is that you get to take swim lessons. Believe it or not we had the best prize for when Isaac brought home 100s on his spelling test. Spankings. Yes you read that right. He would bring it to us with a big smile on his face, and we would act angry and say " What is this? You had better not let this happen again" and then we would chase him down and then Cory would hold him while I spanked him with the spoon....he LOVED it. Later on someone told him what they got for good grades and he told him that he got spankings...and then the reaction he got embarassed him...sooo no more spankings...HA. At any rate...I guess all I am saying is that when you dont make your child expect that he deserves something...he will be thankful for whatever he gets...even if it is just a stick of gum.
A Nice Surprise!!!
CONGRATULATIONS CORY !!!
The Sweetheart Dance
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Forget about the beef...wheres the Mayo?
To the Manager of Wendys (in our particular location),
Hello. My name is Wendy and I am writing this letter as a result of the poor service that I have found at this Wendys location. It has become somewhat of a joke in our family that whenever we order from your store there is ALWAY something missing or the order is wrong. By and by it has lost its humor, thus the reason for this letter. It is a luxury or perhaps a treat for my family to eat out. I am a stay at home mother of 4 and live on once income. While it may seem like a petty reason it really makes a big deal to the kids. Imagine their surprise to find that they are going to get treated to a kids meal. They unwrap their burger with such anticipation and are let down to find that there is pickles and mustard all over it, when it was ordered to be with out. This child will not eat this sandwich...so either my husband gives his up and has nothing...or my money is wasted ....either way someone gets jipped! I realize I could take it back, but we are well on our way down the road and well it just is not convienient.. My husband bought a jr. bacon cheeseburger one time and I a regular cheeseburger. We did not know which one was which. I had to take the tops off and find that the one with the piece of bacon less than a 1/2 in long was the jr bacon cheeseburger...we decided to laugh at this...it was just our luck...or so we thought. I enjoy the crispy chicken sandwich with extra mayo...only there NEVER is extra mayo...and I have to begin to wonder if perhaps your workers are instructed to deny such requests? Tomatoes find their way onto sandwiches that have been special ordered to have been left off. Does it seem like a cooincidence to you that EVERY time we order it is ALWAYS wrong? Please know that I am not angry, but only bringing it to your attention. As the manager of the store I am sure that you would want to address the matter. I am sure we are not the only recipients of such service. Thank you for reading and good luck with your establishment. Respectfully, Wendy
Okay...be honest and I going completely over the top? I just cant stand to pay for something and have it the opposite of what I anticipate! The Mayo just pushed me over quite frankly. oh well. I have not decided if I am going to send this or not...I really think I might. Well see.
Monday, January 14, 2008
Did you know in order to sell live bait that you have to have an agricultural license (that is to sell legally)? Yes you do. Cory and I have decided that we are going to sell live bait...WHY? you ask. Well, not for the money if that is what you are thinking. Plain and simple we love to fish. We also live along a trout stream, and next to a number of lakes. In order to get bait...we and other fishers of fish have to go a little ways to get our bait...it is not really THAT long...but long enough for us to wish that there was something just a little closer. Soooo we will mostly likely set up our fridge shop perhaps a month earlier than the trout opening. We will sell Night Crawlers, Meal Worms, Wax Worms, and also Little Red Worms. I was also thinking that this would make a really great scout project for Isaac at some point. I can just hear you all saying THAT IS SOOOO GROSS!!!! I actually am really excited about it though...we are in a really good location...and well when you run out of bait...location is important:) SOooo the next time you go get your bait...maybe you should ask to see their license? HA!
Another matter to keep in prayer for us is that we would really like to buy our own home at some point. We have been faithfully socking away in order to have a sizeable downpayment. We have it electronically drawn out of our account so there is no temptations. Next summer we will begin our quest. Just for informations sake, we looked into see what we would be pre-approved for. I was sure they were going to say something like 30-40 but it was much higher. Be really careful when you talk to these people. They pre approved us for more than we could EVER pay back--it was nice to see that people thought we were lendworthy...but it also scared me a little because folks will go right out and mortagage the full amount and have to forclose. The whole house business scares me because well...there is no turning back...and a lot of responsibility. I know that God has a plan for our family and a home in mind...just pray that Cory and I will have wisdom in the whole process.
Isn't Dunkin Donut Coffee the best in the world? OOOpps sorry Keith. JJ I have been enjoying the coffee you sent our way...Thank you sooooooo much!
Wednesday, January 02, 2008
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Tuesday, January 01, 2008
Happy New Year
Christmas was delightful! We decorated, baked cookies, ate cookies, went to parties, ate more cookies...then Christmas Eve we went to Corys Dads Church for their Christmas Eve service. I love going to that...The last song they sing is Silent Night, and they light candles and turn out the lights...of course the kids are in awe that they can hold fire...Ha! Esther had a sore throat..and in the middle of the service she was coughing, and then made a gagging chucking sound...that was pretty embarrassing as we were in the very front. After the service we came home and made our traditional hoagies, and then we put cookies out for Santa (Yes, the kids know he is a Fake...but they and I love to pretend). Cory read the Night before Christmas, and then we stayed up until 4 am wrapping the presents I never wrapped...and making everything easier for the next day...like setting the table...making the cookies I wanted to make but didn't...somehow I got lost in the hubub of the festivities....I guess I am just a kid at heart :) We had Corys family for Christmas at our house and had a really great time. The kids shopped at the dollar store for their gift giving...they are getting better...Cory got styrafoam that you put fake flowers in (from Gayle) The first year we did this...Isaac got him paper plates with poinsettias on them , and Esther got him a glow in the dark "I (heart) love richard " keychain...you can imagine the mechanics at the garage where we get our car fixed had a field day with that one :) As for gifts for Cory and I ...well last year, I think I got some pjs...and he got little hand squeezers for his desk...we had a five dollar limit. This year our limit was a little bigger $30 ...this is big stuff for us as we dont buy "things " for ourselves . So I went to my redneck husbands favorite store...Gander Mountain. I bought him a red light that attaches to his scope for coyote hunting. It was more than thirty, but I figured that he would truly use it, rather than get him another pair of dress slacks...he was extremely pleased. My gift was a puzzle to me...he made it sound as if I was getting a jewelry box...instead it was a digital camera!!!! I said I think this is a little more than $30, and he asked if I wanted him to take it back...I said No. He had been saving up for it...thank you dear husband. Pictures will come when I get them made into a cd! I hope your Christmas was awesome!
Presently we are at Corys Mom and Dads for New Years. We had the traditional Pork and Sauerkraut, Mashed Potatoes, and Applesauce....I look forward to that :) This morning I woke up and went sled riding with the kiddos. Yes I admit it...I have never grown up, and love to sled ride!! I did not get to last year as i was Prego with Eli. I think I went down once, and Cory told me to go inside. This year we got tubes for the kiddos to use. I was riding with Esther, and some how managed to ride over Isaacs head...it was quite funny. That brings to mind a few other sled riding stories to tell.
One of my favorite memories is about JJ. We were riding on the big tractor tire intertube...the neighbors were over, and Paul had hooked it up to the gravely somehow...well he was pulling us all around the yard...and everyone was shouting and laughing, and i realized that JJ was missing...and happened to look down to find that she had fallen in the middle, and the tube had run her over, but the weight of us all would not let her head out...so she was literally snowplowing with her face...it was so funny.
Amanda and I had gone sled riding where our Dads farm used to be. We found a hill and decided to try it. The problem was the hill was steep and it had about a 3 foot drop. In our minds we would have flown through the air and kept going...of course that did not happen. We flew off of the hill and landed with a thud...knocking the wind out of both of us...I truly thought I was going to die...I even told Amanda to tell Mom and Dad that I died. When we finally could breathe we cried all the way home . Also Amanda got to stay home from school the next day because she "crushed " her toes. She wanted me to ride in the front of the sled...I said no way, I will break my leg...so she had to ride in front...she crushed her toes because I ran into her...ha.
I am really enjoying these trips down memory lane. Another time we were at a sled riding party and the family had a GIANT toboggan. I said I would ride down with Mr McBurney...they said ok get in the front, I said no way I will break my leg...so he had to ride in front...we crashed at the bottom of the hill, and he broke his leg.
Last one I promise...Ok Corys and my friends from College Lisa, Sparky, and Sarah...we all spent New Years together one year...we decided to go sled riding. Lisa took us to this "GREAT" hill. On the trek to get there...Lisa fell in a ground hog hole...HA. Anyways, the hill was positively frightening to me...it was like Straight up and down...I would not sled ride because I did not enjoy sledding accidents. So Sparky was first...let me just add that the snow had a crust of ice on the top which added to the sledders enjoyment. Okay Sparky went down...no no ...he FLEW down. He was really humming...but when he came back his face was all bloody, with lots and lots of scratches...apparently Lisas really great hill had briar bushes all over it...it was really comical. Sparky tried again to avoid the briars...and ended up going so fast that he was doing cartwheels all the way down the mountain...only he wasnt using his hands ...he was using his FACE!...once again...lots of scratches and blood. Thanks Lisa...those were the days!!
Next time I ll tell you about my skiing experience :) Happy New Year All!
Thursday, November 29, 2007
Eli
Monday, November 26, 2007
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Happy Thanksgiving !
Well, on alittle different note. I have been doing some pondering, mostly about my boys...probably because they are the oldest and the youngest. Anyway...anyone who knows me knows that I am a really (really) big sap when it comes to my kids. I am sad because Isaac is growing way too fast...it sounds really (really) cliche...but also true. Just the other day Cory decided he was big enough to ride in the front seat...I say who cares if he is big enough...he still fits in the back. First of all, I found out about it by Isaac saying...Hey mom...I rode in the front seat...You did what? Then Cory with a guilty look (giving Isaac a shut your trap look) Cory says...there are just some things you don't tell Mommy....grrrrr. I lost that battle. (He still fits in the back seat). Then Isaac said I am going hunting with Daddy....Me saying...We'll see about that...obviously if you scroll down you will see who won that battle...the child is 7. I understand that it is only squirrels....but ...hes only 7. True --he may be the size of a small adult, but that is not the point. Just so you know he did not carry or shoot a gun...Cory did...only he didnt shoot it, cause he didnt see anything...so I guess in some small way I kind of won...maybe. Isaac has also started cub scouts in which I am a den mother ( how exactly that came to be DO NOT ask.) This Tuesday he is getting his wolf or bear badge...I am not sure which...some den mother I am. At any rate he is entering the "big kid stage" in which I have to stop little boys in the toy store and say is this cool? Would a little boy like yourself like a toy like this? My sister says that is also not a cool thing to do. And so I mourn the loss of his childhood, and come into the era of what Isaac used to call the "big graders".
Now about Eli. He is so in love with me. He could care less if I just rolled out of bed and have sweats with paint all over them on me, he thinks I am so beautiful...I marvel at the fact that he could want to spend that much time with me...and so I make time just to hold and snuggle him...to laugh with him and play games, to drown him in my kisses, and just feel good that he loves me sooo unconditionally :) I am taking that extra time with him, just enjoying everything about a baby that everyone loves...and praying that God will not let him be the last. Oh well, that is my thoughts for now...I love being a mother...and like I said I can be a real sap when it comes to my kids. I am blessed.
Tuesday, October 09, 2007
Another Attempt....
I have not forgotten about you all...I just cant seem to make this dinosaur of a computer work. I shall post again (when it lets me)...as for now, I have to pick up the little Valentines from school...Hooray NO FREEZING!
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
HEY THERE...HELLO...HOWDY...HI !
Guten Tag ! I think I spelled that right. I suppose if you don't know German then you wont really know or care! HA. Well, it has been rather busy at the Valentines. Elijah is now over a month old!!! That went quick!! Having 4 children does not seem all that different from 3...however, I have been finding it more difficult to find time to get myself ready and out the door. Must be lack of sleep, and Elijahs habit of spitting up on his or my clothes right before it is time to leave...Ugh!
A few of you have sent gifts to Eli and myself. I appreciate you all so much! Please don't think that I forgot about your thoughtfulness, I intend to write the rest of my thank-yous as I am able. I appreciate your patience as well as your thoughtfulness :)
Cory has started up baseball. Practice is everyday after school and on Saturdays. Games seem to be every night these days. Usually I do not see Cory until 7:00 pm, or sometimes 9:00pm. This has been hard for me, as I need a break now and then. A light is at the end of the tunnel though. With this beautiful Spring weather I shall get to go to the home games and let the older kids attack the dirt pile in the far field...while I snuggle Eli. As long as I do not feel cooped up inside, then I will survive!
Yesterday the girls and I were invited over to a friends house that we know from Preschool. We had a BBQ, and then sat in the gazebo while the kids played in the yard. It was such a fabulous time. She had such a beautiful home...a giant log home, and beautifully landscaped! I scoped it out for good ideas for the Valentine abode.
Well, I hope everyone is having a great week and enjoying the fabulous weather we are having...see you all later!
Sunday, April 08, 2007
A CHILLY DAY TO SEARCH FOR EGG FILLED TREASURES!
GIFTS FROM THE AUNTS AND UNCLES !
GROWING QUICKLY !
Elijah is growing so quickly...although still quite newborn...he definately is coming into his own look.
I love Eli in blue...especially navy. For now he has blue eyes...just like Esther did. I wonder if they will turn brown like hers? Such a handsome little man.
Esther is in love. Plain and simple--head over heels in love with her little brother. One can't hold this little child in peace without a little someone asking for a turn...or giving advice. Esther is QUITE maternal...an instinctive nurturer...and I hope that her bond with him lasts and lasts. I also hope to help her hone her skills...she is such a little homemaker....I love it!







































